Open “Disgusting” Meetings
On page 86 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous it says, But we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our usefulness to others.
Why is it that we have so many "open discussion meetings" (OD) that permit "free-for-alls" where anyone can talk about any subject they wish to "spout-off" about. Subject matter can range from "pissing and moaning" about their day, to sharing feelings about unhappy relationships or complaining about a lousy job, telling tedious war-stories, making jokes, to sharing just plain nonsense.
"Inheritors of the Big Book sponsorship tradition find themselves a minority perspective within the rapidly growing recovery culture. Generally, Big Book sponsors are unhappy with the prevailing presentation of the Twelve Steps. Some see the recovery culture as: proliferating victim groups, a sort of endless Oprah Winfrey show that claims the A.A. Twelve Step method as its inspiration, but in which the real meaning of the Twelfth Step is lost amid an incessant whine about the injured self."
Quoted in "A.A. at the Crossroads," by Andrew Delbanco and Thomas Delbanco.
The New Yorker, March 20, 1995, p. 51.
Do these type of meetings serve any purpose? Are they being helpful to addicts or do they just illustrate how sick these rooms can get? What has been your experience? Is anyone benefiting from these types of meetings?